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Morals Paper:
"Student Asks: Natural or Pathological?" - By Harry Briley - 4/99
Background
A high school student from Virginia posed a question that strikes at the heart of homosexual bills. My response addresses world views in conflict and the nature of 'proofs'. This paper addresses the concept of the hypothesis in the realm of legislature debate. If we drop back to an emotional argument, while it does give us impetus and passion, both sides cloud the issues in the voter's mind as a result.
I will present three hypothesis. Two came from the high school student and one from the Letters to the Editor in the 'Valley Times' newspaper from a lesbian couple.
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Some Common Hypothesis Statements:
A. Homosexual behavior is pathological and therefore practitioners are unable to control.
B. Homosexual behavior is natural and therefore should not be limited.
C. We are a monogamous lesbian couple and therefore claims about promiscuous sex among homosexuals are 'false and lies ... full of hate'.
Reality Check 101
The student asked: "What is your explanation of homosexuality? Natural or Pathological?" My answers may be a surprise in that they are so
faith-centric.
Answer: Neither. In the majority of the cases, it is choice of the will
as all choices are. When you lust at pornography on the web, is it
natural or pathological? Yes, you can find a lot pathological porn
addicts. But there is something about porn (and homosexual acts) that
grabs young people by the throat and says 'Pay attention to me!' How
you respond ... is a choice. Do you give in or do you choose to reserve
sexual behavior for marriage alone?
See the web pages for both Homosexuals Anonymous, recovery groups like
Choices, and religious pages like Transforming Congregations. Our basic
stance is that we make such a big deal about choices in all other areas
of life such as drinking, smoking, gambling, studying homework,
practicing for the big football game, that we choose to curb our baser
appetite for a greater goal. The football player chooses to UNnaturally
do hundreds of push-ups while the NATURAL thing to do is sleep in on the
weekends.
Never in the history of civilizations, except in their declining years,
did the argument of something being 'natural' was reason alone to engage
in an activity. It is natural to speed on the freeway (especially when
no gets hurt). Usually speeding is a totally victimless crime and
nearly impossible to enforce uniformly. It is natural to eat. It is
victimless. Yet, some wise guy figured that jogging was healthier than
weighing 400 pounds. Jogging is not natural. Eating is natural. I
know of no laws against eating and yet we willingly curb our appetite
for many reasons. I will use this concept of self-policing our
'natural' behaviors in the next question.
The nature of a hypothesis in mathematical and philosophical logic.
The student asked "Can you help me prove or disprove that homosexuality is a natural state and not pathological."
Prove? Before you go about making any proof, you have to make a clear
hypothesis, list the assumptions, set the system boundaries or conditions for your
hypothesis, honestly accept valid material that is contrary to the
politically correct position (counteract peer pressure), and then
compare the evidence that counters the hypothesis. Finding examples for
an hypothesis does NOT prove a hypothesis. Finding a single
contradiction to the hypothesis disproves the hypothesis. This is why
evolution can never be proven and so much evidence constantly changes
the theory from year to year.
Many homosexual activists do not go to this trouble. It is far easier
to go for the jugular vein and attack the scientific method on an
emotional level, use half the evidence, conveniently ignore the problem
of polling against open systems, and pass over the aspects that
homosexual research into social mores are not done through impartial
analysis. It is often tempting to do the same in reverse from our
perspective. It is easier to be emotional.
My main point is that proving something requires rigorous use of the
scientific method with peer reviews in juried articles, repeatable
research, definable criteria in the research population, heavy
restriction on subjective selection of that population by the sampling
investigator, and so forth. All this work to prove what? The
hypothesis is homosexual behavior is due to some aspect (genes,
environment, biohazards in landfills, fetal alcoholism syndrome, or
whatever).
Hypothesis A: Homosexual acts are pathological.
All you need to disprove a hypothesis that all homosexual acts are
pathological (i.e. UNcontrollable) is a single example of a homosexually
acting out person who suddenly ceases the behaviors for no other
apparent reason than 'getting faith in Jesus'. 'Getting Jesus' does not
guarantee the ability to cease the behavior, but only one example is
needed to disprove the pathological hypothesis. The homosexuals say
that such a person was never a homosexual in the first place.
Well, how many examples do you need until your are convinced? How many
years must a person be actively doing homosexual acts in order to be
called a homosexual? Would Floyd's (his real name) 30 years in the lifestyle
count? Why do the homosexual activists suddenly label him as a
non-homosexual simply because he 'got Jesus'? Would 800 former
homosexuals be enough to convince you? If the homosexual activists
dismiss so many as not being in the sample population, then on what
terms do they consider themselves homosexual? It is purely at the
emotional level that they discard even former lovers if that former
lover says 'No'. They treat former homosexuals as political traitors.
It is all about politics, not science nor proofs.
Hypothesis B: Homosexuality is natural.
As far as the Natural hypothesis, we challenge that easily enough in
that everything that comes 'naturally' is also bounded by laws, social mores,
and an inner sense of self-driven decision. Plutonium radiation is a natural phenomenon. Yet laws and social behavior is modified in the presence of mere dust particles of plutonium.
The Assumption of No Choice
In natural human behaviors, nobody and nothing forces a person
to sexually act out upon another in a homosexual manner. To say differently is to argue that
the person has no viable conscience and is perhaps sinisterly sub-human (that is, to argue that instinctual mating behavior patterns are solely in control). To say homosexuals 'have
no choice' runs completely counter to their other arguments of 'freedom of choice', 'openess' and 'loving relationships'. These terms that they use are
fraught with active choice.
The Condition of Learned Behaviors
The 'natural' sensory pleasure received is
the result of a choice. To seek this 'high' again and again is Pavlonian, a learned
behavior. Each separate acting out is a choice reinforced by previous
choices. However, sheer repetition does not remove 'choice' from the equation despite how 'natural' it feels.
The Social Acceptance of Restricting Natural Behaviors
In an example used by Buster Soaries (Secretary of State for New Jersey, I believe): if you own a dog, you take great care to housebreak the
dog. You set boundaries, set rules, and make it clear that the
dog goes outside to do it's thing. Most civil families do not let their
pets do what comes naturally. Pee-ing on the living room carpet is not
socially acceptable for dogs kept in the home. If we see the benefit of
curtailing dogs NATURAL behaviors, why are human beings somehow exempt.
On a different subject the honorable Soaries continued to
make the analogy that we pass out condoms to high school students
because we respect dogs more than we do our own students. The
educational leaders in government have chosen to think of students as
drugged zombies unable to curb their sexual appetite and as a result,
treat students as lifeforms lower than a pack of loose dogs in heat. I know
some high school students who think schools treat them like animals
whether or not condoms are passed out.
The Assumption That We Are Not The State
In America, 'the people' as a whole sets the rules. Homosexual activists
are not a put-upon class of society. They are powerful appointees and elected officials in
the highest levels of government, the White House, and Congress. They are
lawyers, accountants, money managers, and so forth. These activists have
power and cash in abundance. They are changing the rules without regard
to historical precedent of traditional civilizations nor religious calls to a supernatural level of
living. Super (above) natural (nature) living is how homosexuals can
suddenly cease the intense Pavlovian 'natural' cravings and weekly
cruising for sex on Friday night.
Does this prove the Hypothesis?
The hypothesis that homosexual acts are natural does not mean that heterosexual acts are unnatural (although most homosexual practitioners claim an aversion, excepting bisexually-oriented people). In reverse, claiming that heterosexual acts are natural begs the issue whether sex within marriage is more natural than sex out of wedlock.. The hypothesis falls apart because the ownership of the 'natural' condition (sexual feelings) is outside the system boundary set by the hypothesis (homosexuals only). All these arguments are attributing a sensory 'high' condition to an end-state.
Mathematically, their argument can be stated:
Condition: All Sexual response is natural.
Assumption: All Homosexual behavior is a sexual response.
Conclusion: Homosexuality is natural.
Looks like a simple airtight argument, except:
Not everything that is natural is a sexual response.
Not every sexual response yields a homosexual behavior (even among homosexuals).
'Natural' as used in the condition is a 'cause and effect'
The assumption stated above is a choice on how to direct the sexual response.
Therefore 'Natural' as used in the conclusion is a 'comfortable behavior of choice'.
Hypothesis C: Talking about promiscuous sex false/hateful
SO we agree that there is a natural sensory 'high' but we also see a lot
of angry unfulfilled men who claim to be happily attracted to one man (monogamous to the public's eye)
... while both cruise for sex at the Gay bars, bathhouses, and highway 580 'meeting places' on Friday
night as part of their 'commitment'.
The lesbian couple who posed this hypothesis in the Valley Times are without excuse since they live in the San Francisco Bay Area. They are not being truthful themselves regarding the more predatory form of the species ... the male. It is almost as if they have been totally out of contact with the rest of the homosexual community for the past 50 years.
At the mass 'commitment ceremony' held in San Francisco a few years ago, the leading lesbian celebrant happily pronounced everyone joined in joyous partnership and while the microphone was still 'live' said to the crowd '...and I'll see you out cruising tonight'. The newly 'partnered' couples gave a rousing cheer at that remark. The hypothesis that talking about promiscuous sex is false only needs the proponents admitting it on public TV to disprove the argument.
Finding one example of a monogamous lesbian couple (there are many examples), does not validate the assumption in their assertion of 'hate' that it is rare for male homosexuals to 'cruise'. Since the condition is itself unsupported by the evidence, the hypothesis is disproved. It is therefore honest and appropriate to report to the general public that the majority male homosexuals cruise for anonymous sex outside of their committed partnerships. The same can be said for male promiscuous heterosexuals.
Think also of those who call
themselves bi-sexual. By mere definition of the term, such a person is
not monogamous. It is torturing the English language to claim
otherwise. On the other hand, we have seen genuine joy in our friends
who have ceased the acting out and directed their attention something
infinitely more satisfying ... Jesus.
Some closing remarks about religion and homosexual activists.
Homosexual activists are found in many churches. I have one friend, a
transgendered male (now female), Alice is his/her name loves Jesus and
feels like an outcast by the homosexual community. She/He does not
think He/She did anything wrong. Most active homosexuals in the church
do not think they are doing anything wrong either. So why can't these
two groups respect each other on a spiritual plane. Instead, the ones
who seem to have it together are those who discovered a deeper spiritual
foundation of transformational change.
Like the old song 'Amazing Grace', they sing 'I once was blind but now I
see, was lost but now am found.' You don't reach that spiritual level
by demanding your own way or excusing behaviors as being natural or
genetic or embryonic. You reach that level of faith in Jesus by a
relationship of surrender into his awesome managerial skills. Ask a
former homosexual to compare his years of Gay Pride to the what he has
found in Jesus today. Jesus wins hands down, not because of proofs for
natural or proofs for pathology, but because Jesus calls us to a
super-nature-al life.
He says, "Take up your cross and follow me." ... that is a total
sacrificial surrender of 'free-love' sex. At first glance, the very idea
seems too extreme, especially to teens. In another place, Jesus says
"Take my yoke (as oxen wear to plow a field) upon you, for my yoke is
easy (to bear) and my burden is (delightfully) light." Homosexuals
outside the church say we are deluded. Homosexuals inside the church
say we are condemning and mean-spirited. These are the nicer things
that they say about us.
I have probably offended everyone in these answers, but I spent three
hours thinking about and typing this in because you asked the question
that is on many people's mind ... "Is it irreversible or do I really
have no choice?"
(These comments provided to encourage inner hope that Jesus is your daily answer.)
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